What are bar girl scams in Pattaya?

January 8, 2019 - Reading time: 2 minutes

What are the bar girl scams in Pattaya? Thousands of forigen men visit Thailand and especially Pattaya each year. They often meet ladies in bars. Bar girls in Pattaya are hookers and sell sex in exchange for money.

If you're in a relationship with a lady working at a Pattaya bar, you will need to give her money so that she stops working at the bar and meeting new men.

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For some guys this can work out OK. For others it does not. Thousands of bar girls have multiple forigener boyfriends. They might have 3-4+ different guys sending money each month, and each guy thinks he is her only boyfriend. This means that the lady is able to earn lots of money from multiple boyfriends at the same time; and plus if she still works at the bar then she can still sleep with more men and try to find new boyfriends to send more cash.

Other times a man will have an attractive bar girl as his girlfriend and she sleeps with different guys every night of the week... But of course her "boyfriend" totally believes that she "never goes with customers" or that "she is different".

She is probably not different. All Thai women are responsible for supporting their families with money (Thai men are not). For this reason Thai women need as much money as possible and sometimes the way they earn this is by having many different guys send money.

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How much does a dowry cost at a Thai wedding?

December 28, 2018 - Reading time: 2 minutes

Money for a Thai wedding dowry payment

Marriage is very important in Thai culture. If you're with a Thai lady and not married, then very often the relationship is not seen as legitimate. We have seen time and time again that Thai women can be open to relationships with other men until the day that they are married. If you are in a serious relationship with a Thai lady, it would be advisable to get married as soon as possible.

You may also need to get married in order to be eligible for visas in Thailand or overseas.

When you marry a Thai woman you will need to pay a dowry (also known as "sin sod") to her parents. This is a tradition that dates back hundreds of years in Thailand.

So how much does a dowry cost when you're getting married in Thailand? Average dowry payments in Thailand tend to range from 500,000 THB to 1,000,000 THB cash. Often the cash payment will be accompanied by gold, properties and high end vehicles.

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This money is paid to the parents of the bride by the husband-to-be. It's also very common for cars, as well as properties or land to be included as part of the dowry payment.

If you are paying a large amount of money to the parents of your Thai fiancée, it's important that you are totally sure this woman is committed to you, and that she won't just take the money and run off. Searching the internet you will find countless horror stories surrounding relationships with Thai women.

After all, if you were spending this type of money on any form of business venture, you would do proper due diligence and make sure that you're making a sound investment. We can help as we specialize in investigating ladies all over Thailand.

The cost of investigating your spouse is often negligible compared with the hefty dowry payment you'll need to make when tying the knot. We can find out if a Thai lady is in other relationships, and how she responds to being approached by other men. Get in touch with us today for a free, no pressure consultation. 


Common lies that Pattaya bar girls tell foreigners

October 9, 2018 - Reading time: 3 minutes

If you're involved with a bar girl working in Pattaya, lies are something you're going to encounter over and over again. With that in mind, we've compiled the 5 most common lies that bar girls in Pattaya tell foreign men...

1. "I don't have a boyfriend"

If you meet a bar girl in Pattaya and she tells you that she doesn't have a boyfriend, don't believe her. A lady working in a bar would never admit that she is already in a relationship. For many of these women their goal is to be in multiple relationships with foreign men at the same time. Don't believe us? Take a look at this video which explains the mentality of many ladies in this environment. As private investigators, we can easily find out if your girlfriend is claiming to be single while you're out of town!

2. "It's my first day/week/month in the bar"

Bar girls aren't stupid. They know what you want to hear and would never admit to working in the bar scene for many years. They will almost always lie and claim to be fresh on the scene, whether she says that it's her first week, her first month, or her second month in the bar. If she tells you that it's her first day in the bar, alarm bells should be ringing out very loudly.

3. "I don't go with customers"

This has to make our top five. "I never go with customers" is one of the most common lies you're going to hear when you start to become involved in a lady that's working at a bar in sin city. The truth is, bar girls meager wages are designed to be bolstered by leaving the bar with customers as much as possible. If you don't believe us, we can find out if she is prepared to leave the bar with customers by visiting the bar ourselves and sending you a detailed report explaining her behaviour. 

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4. "I don't have children"

Bar girls will try to make themselves seem as appealing as possible to their customers, and they know that many men are not keen on a lady with one or two children. They will claim not to have any children. It's also very common for bar girls to claim that they have only one child, when they in fact have two or three. If you decide to visit her family, she might tell you the other children are her nieces or nephews. By the time you find out she actually has two or more, you're already in love with her and less likely to walk away.

5. "I'm pregnant!"

This is a very common lie and scenario that constantly gets played out in Pattaya. The condom ripped or bust, and now just a couple of weeks later you're getting a call telling you that you're going to be a father. Many guys are fooled by this, they will return back to Thailand and spend more time (and money) with the woman they think is carrying their child. Don't be fooled, this is a very common tactic used by bar girls in Thailand to force men into committing to them. 

We are experts at finding the truth for our clients and investigating Pattaya bar girls. We can find out very quickly if you're being fed lies. Our rates are highly competitive and we offer free quotes for all work. Get in touch with us today explaining your situation and we'll let you know how we can help.


How much money do bar girls earn in Pattaya?

July 28, 2018 - Reading time: 2 minutes

I was recently asked "How much money do bar girls earn in Pattaya?". The answer isn't as straightforward as you might think and their earnings can vary massively. First of all, different bars offer different salaries. A go-go dancers tend to earn more money than ladies working in beer bars, for example. Base salaries for ladies working in Thai bars tend to be around 8,000 — 13,000 THB per month, however this isn't the only way bar girls earn cash. They also earn money each time someone buys them a drink, each time someone pays a bar fine for them, and a share of the bar's pooled tips. 

A popular bar girl might average 10 drinks per night, at 50 baht per drink, that's an extra 500 THB per night, or 3,500 THB per week. If the lady is bar fined by 3 customers per week, this combined with her drinks could easily earn the lady 10,000 THB extra per week, paid on top of her wages. 

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So how much does a bar girl earn? A popular, good looking girl has the potential to earn 30,000+ THB per month, and sometimes they're able to earn much, much more. Other bar girls that are older or less good looking, might rely more on their wages from the bar, only occasionally being bar fined or having drinks bought for them.

Why does this matter? Well, if you're involved with a Thai lady that's working in a bar, you might decide to take her out of the bar and ask her to find a job somewhere else. Often bar girls have children from previous relationships that they need to support with money, as well as sending money to support their parents and sometimes other extended family. If you get seriously involved with a Thai lady, you'll be responsible for supporting her and all of the people that rely on her.

I often tell people that the words "bar" and "brothel" mean the same exact thing, it's important to realize this. A bar girl's aim is to leave the bar with as many customers as possible.

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If you're involved with a Thai lady that works at a bar in Pattaya, we can help you find the truth of your situation. We can find out how your girlfriend truly behaves when you're not around. Send us a message today explaining your situation and we will respond with a free, no obligation quote.


Thai girlfriend scams in Pattaya

May 12, 2018 - Reading time: 3 minutes

In Pattaya and other areas of Thailand there is no shortage of young, attractive Thai ladies. One thing is for sure, where there's beautiful Thai girls there are bound to be scams taking place. Not all Thai women are bad, in fact most of them are generally good people. Places such as Pattaya tend to attract ladies with a need for money. If you speak to ladies that are working in the Thai nightlife, you will find that many of them have children. Typically, their children will live in the care of their grandparents, with the mother usually having to support all of them herself. In Thailand, it's rare for the father of a child to support the child financially after breaking up with his child's mother. The minimum wage in Thailand is also very low (around 350 THB per day, or $11 USD), working in the nightlife scene and mixing with foreigners can allow Thai ladies to earn much more money per night, supporting themselves and their families.

Many Thai women meet foreign guys and get into relationships. Often the foreign man will need to support his girlfriend and her family with money, this is normal in Thai culture when you start to establish a serious relationship. However, if you are being lied to or scammed, your money could be better spent elsewhere. As leading private detectives, we can help save you money by exposing Thai ladies that lie and cheat.

Bar girl scams in Pattaya Pattaya has no shortage of nightlife and there are thousands of bar girls living and working in the city. Often bar girls will claim that they're not being "bar fined", or leaving the bar with customers, but in fact they are. Often times bar girls will aim to have multiple boyfriends sending them money every month. Our job as private investigators is to expose the lies told by bar girls and bring our clients the truth. It can be much cheaper to hire us and discover the truth of a situation and we offer free quotes for all work undertaken. If you would like to learn more about bar girl scams, then read our bar girl investigations blog post.

The risks of internet dating in Thailand

Internet dating in Thailand Internet dating is very popular in Thailand. However, a hidden danger behind this is that many prostitutes use dating websites and popular dating apps. These women understand that by claiming to have a university education and an entry level job, they will make themselves seem much more attractive to foreigners. Often by the time a serious relationship has come about, a boyfriend will be too in love with his Thai girl to break off the relationship, even if he discovers that she has been lying all along. It's very common for Thai ladies to lie about where they work and their relationship status when they're trying to hook up with foreign men. If you'd like to learn more about this and how we can help you, please read our blog post about the risks of internet dating in Thailand.

If you're getting involved with a lady that lives in Pattaya, it's important that you do your own due diligence and check her out.

As leading private investigators in Thailand we are able to supply our customers with cellphones pre-installed with monitoring software, which allow you to record all messages sent/recieved, GPS locations, and can be monitored from anywhere in the world. These cellphones can be sent to any address in Thailand. We can also investigate people using more traditional methods. For personal surveillance we charge just 1,000 THB per hour. We can also setup "sting" operations on suspected cheaters in Pattaya. Send us a message today with the details of your case and we'll respond back to you with a free quote.

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Do you need a bar girl detective in Pattaya?

May 3, 2018 - Reading time: 2 minutes

Pattaya bar girl investigations

If there is one thing Pattaya has no shortage of, it’s nightlife. The city is filled with thousands of different beer bars, bar complexes, a gogo bars, clubs and discos. Thousands of foreign men visit Thailand each year and meet Thai ladies working in the adult entertainment industry. Many of these men will go on to marry their Thai partners and even have children together further into their relationships.

However, there is a more sinister side to relationships with bar girls in Thailand. Often these women are from poor families in the north of Thailand and struggle to earn enough money to support themselves. The minimum wage in Thailand is very low, at only around US $11 per day. Thai ladies often look to their partners for financial support, this is typical if the lady is in a relationship with a foreign guy or even a Thai man… Once in a committed relationship the man is expected to help out with money for the lady and her family in Thai culture.

Sadly, many bar girls in Pattaya take advantage of this and try to have multiple boyfriends sending them money at the same time. Often, they will continue to sleep with other men while already in relationships, with the goal of earning (or being given) more money. This is a real problem for men looking to get involved with ladies that work or have previously worked in Pattaya nightlife. As a detective agency based in the city, we have helped countless men discover the truth about their Thai girlfriends. We will take the time to listen to your situation and offer advice on the best way we can help deliver you the truth.

If a Thai lady is working at a beer bar, an agogo bar, or if she regularly visits freelancing spots such as Lucifer or Insomnia, it’s very easy for us to help you by discovering if the lady is open to engaging in more relationships with other guys.

Questions we can answer include:

  • Is she still working in the bar?
  • Can we "bar fine" her?
  • Is she where she says she is?
  • Is she leaving the bar with customers?

After hiring us, there will be no need to worry about what your girlfriend is doing while you’re out of the country. We can deliver you truth professionally and discreetly. Simply send us a message explaining your situation and we will be glad to send you a free quote.