Does your Thai girlfriend or wife have multiple different Facebook profiles? If so, please read this article and take it seriously.
Many women in Thailand are involved with so called "romance scams" where they have multiple different boyfriends from different countries sending them money at the same time. This is a goal for many ladies working as bar girls in Thailand however women with the ambition of having multiple foreign boyfriends can come from all different occupations and walks of life. Some women work respectable jobs while fishing for relationships on Tinder, and other popular dating websites... This often has a higher rate of success for them as foreign men look to be in relationships with women that have not been involved with the sex industry. Foreign men often trust women they have met on the internet claiming to be university graduates, for example, and these men are perfect prey.
What does it mean when a Thai woman has different Facebook profiles? In order for these romance scams to work, the women typically create and maintain different internet personas. This allows them to be "in a relationship" on Facebook with one man, and "in another relationship" with a different man using a different Facebook account. It also allows them to set different profile photos for each boyfriend.
If you are trying to investigate your Thai girlfriend or wife, realize there are many tricks which can be used to make it virtually impossible for you to uncover multiple Facebook accounts belonging to the same lady. Usually these ladies will block their boyfriend's account using all of their other (secret) Facebook profiles, which means that even if her boyfriend spends hours searching for the other accounts, he will never find them.
Ladies that have 2 different Facebook pages will typically have many others that you don't know about. Using different names and profile photos, it is virtually impossible to find the other accounts. Having a stash of alternative accounts mean that women who meet other men can engage in relationships with them without their boyfriend finding out.
With 3 or 4 different boyfriends sending money to one Thai lady, the lady is able to build a comfortable life for herself and her family.
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Anywhere you look online relating to ladies in Pattaya you will find stark warnings about the dangers of getting into relationships in Pattaya. There are all types of romance scams being perpetrated in the city. Many guys are involved in relationships with bar girls convinced that their girlfriend in Pattaya is not "leaving the bar with customers". Are you one of these guys? Is your girlfriend sleeping with multiple different customers every week while you're in another country? Don’t get taken advantage of. Pattaya Private Investigators can find out for you by sending an agent to your partner's place of work and propositioning her, or by conducting personal surveillance. We can find out if your girlfriend is sleeping with other men while you’re not around.
Some guys will look at internet dating in Pattaya to try and find a lady that has not been tainted by the Thai sex industry. However this is also shark infested waters with reports of some ladies faking university credentials and lying about their true professions. If a lady is selling her body, it costs her nothing to make profiles online claiming to work a legitimate job, in the hopes of scooping a foreign boyfriend. Supporting Thai women is an expensive undertaking and these ladies are well aware of that.
Pattaya city is often described as "the sex capital of the world". Women from all professions in the city can turn to selling themselves on a “freelance” basis, at many of the popular clubs in the city such as "Insomnia" or "808".
If you're in love with a sex worker that is regularly spending time with clients, the lady (your girlfriend) will be a professional liar. This type of lady will have rehearsed her tactics on many previous boyfriends and be able to conceal her activities with ease – she has already heard your questions before from previous boyfriends. If you have a professional problem, then you need professional help. Contact our detective agency today. We offer free, no pressure quotes for all work.
The pregnancy scam is one of the more sinister scams that can occur in Thailand. It works by spinning a web of deceit and playing on your emotions.
How does the pregnancy scam work? It is really quite simple. You’re spending some romantic time with a Thai bar girl, dancer, or even a ‘non-working’ girl that you met while in Thailand. Maybe the condom breaks or you didn’t use one. You head off back home and think nothing more of it until you get a message which reads "My period is late... I’m pregnant".
Why would a Thai girl lie about being pregnant? Well, any man with a conscience is much less likely to walk away from a woman that could be carrying his child. The lady might demand money to pay for an abortion; but more often they will use the claim of being pregnant to lure the man back to Thailand, or to extract more money from him so that she can stop working around alcohol while pregnant.
There are many different motives that could be behind telling this lie, but the same principle applies each time. It’s an emotional blackmail which gives the Thai woman a sense of security that the man will not walk away from her.
Often ladies involved with this type of scam will have used it on many different men over a number of years. Over time they can hone their abilities and make their claims seem very believable.
It’s very difficult to outsmart a woman that is practiced in these tricks, as they’ve heard and seen it all before. Positive pregnancy tests can be ordered online or obtained from pregnant friends. There are even reports of some ladies allegedly taking drugs which bloat out their stomachs and help to make their foreign boyfriends believe that they’re really pregnant.
By the time the man has found out his lady was lying, he will have spent more time with her and formed an emotional attachment to her which will be hard to break. We have often seen women that claim to be pregnant conveniently miscarry shortly before they're due for an ultrasound examination. Others can be more creative and string out their claims even longer.
Pregnancy is a big deal in Thailand. Unlike in Europe or North America there is very little government welfare available, if you can’t afford to feed and clothe your baby there are few safety nets. With this being the case, it would be unwise for a Thai woman to fall pregnant with a man she barely knows.
If you think that you might be falling victim to this scam then there are things which we can do to help you. We can find out if your girlfriend is cheating on you while you’re out of the country, or try to see if she is continuing to consume alcohol while claiming to be pregnant.
While it’s difficult for us to determine whether or not someone is in fact pregnant, we can find out if they’re lying to you about other things before you make big emotional or financial commitments to them. We are a leading detective agency working across Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket. Get in touch with us if you think that you could use our help. We offer free quotes for all work and are glad to offer help and support to our clients.
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Are you thinking about having an a go-go dancer as your girlfriend? This post will touch on the subject of men that are together with Thai ladies working in go-go bars.
Many Western guys are in relationships with go-go dancers. Usually these are open relationships; the lady continues to sleep with men to earn a living while her boyfriend back home waits to video call her once a night when she finishes work. If you’re seeking this type of arrangement we have some words of advice for you.
First of all, anyone in a relationship with an a go-go dancer should be mindful about sexually transmitted diseases. Prostitution (as of 2019) is illegal in Thailand, bars are not obliged to send their employees for testing. There are many false rumors circulating online that these women are regularly tested for STDs, sadly this is mostly untrue. The cost of testing one or two dozen women every couple of months would add up and be another overhead for the bar owners, who are in no way required to perform these tests. Don’t underestimate the amount of men a popular dancer can leave with on a regular basis, and don’t take risks with your health.
Secondly, be aware that many Thai ladies in this field of work aim to recruit several boyfriends. They want 4 or 5 different boyfriends at the same time. Maybe you’re not sending her money this month but another ‘boyfriend’ might. How can you tell if a lady has multiple boyfriends? You can’t. Women that play this game are professionals, using different cellphones, different social media personas, and a large toolbox of convincing excuses that have been tried and tested over a number of years. Don’t think you can outsmart a Thai lady running this type of scam, you won’t. Popular bar girls or dancers often hone their skills over many years… They’ve heard and seen it all before. Is she speaking to other men while you’re not around? Does she have multiple Facebook accounts for different men? It’s very difficult to avoid this trap.
If you’re planning to take your girlfriend out of the bar or go-go and help her find another job; then you need to be ready and willing to wire significant amounts of money to her. Popular dancers are often able to earn lots of money every month, and if she’s used to a high rolling lifestyle then it might cost you a small fortune helping to support her. You will be responsible for supporting her, her immediate family and anyone else that relies on her… This can really add up, and it would be wise to perform some due diligence of your own before taking on these financial burdens.
Does she claim never to leave the bar with men? Most often these claims are false and the ladies will masterfully hide their activities while their boyfriend is out of town. Again, don’t underestimate these women; some are incredibly skillful at lying to their partners. If she is leaving the bar with customers, you will never find this out on your own if you’re out of the country. This is where we come in.
We can find if your girlfriend is leaving the go-go with customers or giving her number out to men. We can find out if your girlfriend tells customers that she’s single or in a relationship. As a detective agency based in Thailand, this is our job and we have already exposed countless ladies working in go-gos. If you would like the truth about a lady, we can deliver, and often hiring a PI is the only way to uncover the truth when dealing with ladies involved with this line of work. We work across Thailand and offer free quotes for all work, get in touch with us today and see what we can do for you. Or visit our homepage for more information about what we do.
We would like to wish all of our clients new an old a very happy Songkran in 2019. Please be careful on the roads and keep yourselves hydrated by drinking plenty of water. Have a great time and thank you for choosing us.
There is a lot of information online about bargirls and go-go dancers working in Pattaya. Something that's spoken less about is ladies that freelance. Many ladies living in Pattaya (or Bangkok) work as freelancers. Some of these women have legitimate jobs (in supermarkets, restaurants, banks) in the daytime and freelance in the evening times. Other women will not have any jobs and only work as freelancers, meeting men in some of the many clubs and discos across the city.
So how can you tell if your girlfriend is freelancing in Pattaya? There are many clubs in Pattaya that are popular with freelancers, including Insomnia (iBar), 808 club, Lucifer, Mixx, Torus (and many other places). Many foreign boyfriends of Thai ladies will never believe that their girlfriend is working as a freelancer and meeting men at clubs in the city, despite the lady visiting these clubs every single day. Often times these boyfriends will be unaware of how many different men their partner is sleeping with during her job as a freelancer.
Here's what you need to remember: Drinks at clubs such as these are expensive. If you're visiting these clubs every day or many times per week you must spend a lot of money on drinks. A Thai woman that is out of work will not visit Insomnia every night (or another club) unless she is going there to meet up with men. When she meets a customer at one of these clubs she will earn money to support herself.
Realize that if your girlfriend is visiting a club every day or very regularly, that the cost of buying several drinks per night in these clubs is high. An unemployed Thai lady will not spend all the cash she has buying expensive drinks in clubs, unless she is specifically in those clubs for the purpose of meeting customers. (Or she has lots of money.) This is really a no-brainer when you break down and think about the facts of someone's lifestyle and financial state. Is your girlfriend freelancing in Pattaya?
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