Published: September 30, 2020 - Reading time: 6 minutes
» Updated: October 15, 2024

Pattaya Exposed: Is Your Thai Girlfriend Cheating on You?

Pattaya, a vibrant coastal city in Thailand, is renowned for its stunning beaches and lively nightlife. However, it is also infamous for its sex tourism industry, raising concerns for many foreigners seeking relationships with local women. The question often arises: Is your Thai girlfriend cheating on you?

Understanding Pattaya's Unique Dynamics

Relationships in Pattaya can be complicated, particularly due to the city's notorious sex industry. A significant number of women in Pattaya engage in sex work, which leads to trust issues among those who pursue romantic relationships with them. Estimates suggest that there are between 150,000 and 300,000 sex workers in Thailand, with many of them operating in Pattaya【Wikipedia】.

As the world’s largest red-light district, the likelihood that your Thai girlfriend may cheat on you while living in Pattaya is thought to be significantly higher than in other areas of Thailand and most other parts of the world. Many of the women may not actively work in prostitution during their day-to-day job but often engage in freelance work at night in popular venues such as nightclubs, beer bars, and karaoke bars.

The Statistics Behind Prostitution in Pattaya

The sex trade in Thailand generates around $6.4 billion annually, contributing to approximately 10% of the country's GDP【Wikipedia】. This economic dependency further complicates the dynamics of relationships formed in this area. Many men who meet women in Pattaya often leave believing their girlfriend is being faithful, but the reality can be quite different.

As a leading firm of private detectives in the city, we have previously seen cases where ladies work 'normal jobs' in Pattaya also drink and 'freelance' with guys at popular bars and clubs; allowing them to earn extra cash in the nightlife scene while still working respectable jobs in the daytime.

The Role of Bar Girls in Pattaya

Bar girls in Pattaya operate under a different set of rules compared to typical service staff in Western countries. They earn a small salary and supplement their income through commissions on drinks purchased by customers and tips. Each time a customer takes a lady out of the bar, a “bar fine” is required, which the bar receives as compensation. This system leads to many bar girls forming emotional attachments with customers, complicating their relationships with foreign partners. Read our 'guide to bar girls' blog post for more information on this subject.

Our experience has shown that many bar girls claim they only work in bars, yet this is rarely the complete truth. Many continue to engage with customers outside their work hours. Other ladies may claim to work “normal jobs” (such as in a restaurant or convenience store), while they actually work in a bar. If a lady is lying about her occupation, then she will typically send many photos of herself wearing 'work uniform' and posing in her workplace. In reality, it's easy to take a few selfies while visiting your friend at the local convenience store and posing in the friend's uniform. Finding the truth of the situation while you are not in the same country can be difficult, and it's easy to get fooled.

If your girlfriend works at a bar in Pattaya, or if she is lying about where she works, then hiring a private investigator may be the only way to uncover the truth about her activities.

Red Flags and Relationship Dynamics

It is crucial to remain vigilant and observe signs of dishonesty or infidelity. Common red flags may include:

• Changes in Behaviour: Sudden shifts in routine or increased secrecy about their phone.
• Financial Inconsistencies: Unexpected expenses or lack of transparency regarding finances.
• Frequent Absences: Regular unavailability during evenings or weekends without a valid explanation.

We Can Help

At PattayaPI, we offer free, no-obligation quotes for all investigative services. All contact with us is strictly private and confidential. If you have concerns about your Thai girlfriend’s fidelity, we can conduct personal surveillance, background checks, and even social media investigations to help you uncover the truth.

Conclusion

While many women in Pattaya are sincere in their relationships, the backdrop of the sex industry complicates trust. Understanding these dynamics and being aware of potential signs of infidelity can help you navigate your relationship more effectively.

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Published: September 28, 2020 - Reading time: 3 minutes
» Updated: June 17, 2024

If you require a private investigator in Hua Hin then we can help. We have been working in the Hua Hin area of Thailand for over 20 years and are experienced in all form of private investigations, including infidelity (cheating partner) investigations, finding people in Hua Hin (missing people investigations), corporate due diligence, background checks, and more.

Whatever your need to start an investigation, feel free to get in touch with us for a free quote. All contact with us is strictly private and confidential.

Local detectives in Hua Hin

Hua Hin is a popular coastal resort on the Gulf of Thailand. Once a quiet fishing village, Hua Hin now caters to tourists and expats alike with a wide range of adult entertainment venues, including beer bars, girly bars, a go-go bars, discos, massage parlours, night clubs, gentleman’s clubs and more.

Much of our work involves such venues; we can help to investigate foreign men that are visiting Hua Hin, we can also investigate Thai ladies and bar girls as part of our infidelity investigation services. Whereas other agencies may send surveillance teams to Hua Hin from Bangkok or elsewhere in Thailand, we believe that local experience and knowledge are key in our line of work, which is why we rely on local agents that have been based in Hua Hin for a number of years.

We feel that this gives us a tactical advantage that can only help us during investigations and secure our clients the highest likelihoods of success.

Choosing to hire a private detective

For some people, choosing to hire a private detective can be a tough decision. We are on hand to answer any questions that you might have before, during and after the investigation and are able to provide you with real time updates through instant messaging apps such as WhatsApp.

Clients that have engaged us and received evidence of their partner committing acts of infidelity, are typically very glad to have instructed us to start an investigation on their behalf. Images which show a husband or wife committing acts of infidelity can be used in subsequent divorce proceedings. For other clients the results of an investigation will bring peace of mind that their partner is not committing acts of infidelity/adultery. We are also able to investigate businesses in Hua Hin as part of our corporate intelligence and due diligence services.

Information we will need

The more information that we receive prior to a surveillance investigation starting the better. For our surveillance service we will need information such as: Photos of the subject (where available), a description of the subject, details about any vehicles used by the subject (where known), or their preferred mode of transport, their address, any address the subject is likely to visit, information about any distinctive features (tattoos, piercings, or dyed hair for example). Small details can help us to confirm the identity of a subject quickly and efficiently.

Start an investigation

We offer free quotes for all work. Please feel free to get in touch with one of our experienced team members and let us know that you require our services in Hua Hin, we will do our best to help and we provide free, no pressure quotations for all work. Please rest assured that all contact with our agency is strictly private and confidential.

Published: September 27, 2020 - Reading time: 4 minutes
» Updated: June 17, 2024

If you require a private investigator on Koh Chang then we can help. We have been completing private investigations on Koh Chang for over 20 years and are able to help our clients with a wide range of different services... Including our surveillance services, missing people searches, business due diligence, and more.

Koh Chang is one of the largest islands in the gulf of Thailand. Koh Chang is popular for its nightlife scene and the island contains many beer bars, “girly bars”, gentleman’s clubs, a go-go bars, discos, night clubs, and more. For many visitors to the island the temptations of the sex industry can prove irresistible.

We have seen many cases where people find themselves thousands of miles away from their partners and decide to indulge themselves in Thailand’s famous night life scene. Whilst many people might never commit acts of infidelity while living with their partners at home; often people visiting Thailand can find themselves far removed from their partner and their relationship.

Please feel free to contact us for a free quote. All contact with us is private and confidential. While we focus on infidelity related investigations, we aim to help our corporate clients with investigative services for businesses.

As an agency we have seen this happening countless times over the years. Our aim is to capture high quality images that can be used as undeniable evidence that infidelity has taken place. The amount of time needed to gather evidence of infidelity varies depending on the circumstances in each case. Our job is to accept instructions from our clients; we can work conduct surveillance for as long (or as little!) as needed.

Hiring a private investigator

We recognise that choosing to hire a private investigator can be a difficult decision for some of our clients. However, when infidelity is found and documented by us, our clients seldom regret choosing to start an investigation. Evidence of infidelity is often used in subsequent divorce proceedings.

We aim to keep our clients informed through every step of the process, often providing live updates through WhatsApp, Telegram, or other instant messaging applications.

In other cases our clients may not wish to be burdened with live surveillance updates, and in this case we can simply work and provide a written reports detailing the events which unfolded during surveillance, with any images that were gathered included along with our report, delivered via e-mail. Please let us know if you would like to receive live updates, or an investigation report when getting in touch with us.

Accepting the results of an investigation

For many of our clients it can be difficult to deal with the results of an investigation. In many cases the subject of the investigation will be caught committing acts of infidelity; these acts of infidelity are often witnessed by us over several days or weeks, and can often involve multiple different partners, especially if the subject is involved with the sex industry.

Some of our clients can find it shocking to be confronted with the truth about their partner’s activities on Koh Chang. We believe that it’s better to be aware of, and understand, your partner’s activities in Thailand. The prevalence of sexually transmitted diseases when it comes to the sex industry is something that you should be aware of if your partner is witnessed committing acts of infidelity.

How to proceed

Please feel free to get in touch with us and we will offer you a free quote. Please remember to include any information that could help us to understand your requirements when getting in touch with us; we will need to know the location where you require us to work and any details relating to the subject, their movements, mode of transportation, etcetera. Please be assured that all contact with us is private and confidential. We will endeavour to handle your case discreetly and in total confidence.

Published: September 26, 2020 - Reading time: 4 minutes
» Updated: June 17, 2024

If you require the services of a private investigator on Koh Samui, then we can help. Our agency has been successfully completing assignments on Koh Samui for over 20 years.

Koh Samui, also known as Samui Island, lies in the Gulf of Thailand and is a Thailand’s second largest island. The island is known as a popular destination for tourists with many hotels, bars, clubs, and entertainment catering to foreign visitors. Often is the case that foreign visitors will be suspected of engaging in acts of infidelity at some of the numerous different adult entertainment venues on the island.

If you suspect that your partner might be cheating on you, we can help to check if this is the case and gather evidence (photos/video). Our experienced and local agents are able to help with a wide range of different issues, however we aim to focus on infidelity (cheating husband/wife) investigations on Koh Samui.

Please feel free to contact us for a free, no obligation quote.

Local experience and knowledge

We believe that local knowledge and experience makes all the difference when conducting investigations in Thailand, and this could not be more true when it comes to monitoring and surveilling people on Koh Samui. Whereas other companies have been known to send surveillance teams to the island from Bangkok or other areas of Thailand, our agents are already based on Koh Samui and in most cases have resided on the island for decades.

If you suspect that your partner might be cheating on you in Koh Samui then we can help to gather evidence of their infidelity in the form of photos/videos. Our aim is to remain in the shadows and gather images of your partner’s activity without them ever being aware that an investigator is watching them.

Please feel free to contact one of our experienced team members for a free quote. Please mention to us that you require our services on Koh Samui when getting in touch with us and we will do our best to help.

Hiring a private investigator

We recognise that many of our clients may not have hired detective agencies before. We aim to respond to all queries as swiftly as possible and will be on hand to answer any questions that you might have before, during and after the duration of your case.

We believe that communication is key and will aim to be in regular contact with you whilst conducting surveillance on your behalf, keeping you up to date with our progress as we complete each day of surveillance for you. We are able to provide you with live updates so that you know exactly what is going on at all stages in the investigation. Once we have collected satisfactory evidence for you then you may choose to discontinue surveillance.

The amount of time needed to gather high quality images showing infidelity can vary massively from case to case… Often is the case that our clients will continue until they have collected numerous photos and documented their partner’s infidelity over the course of several days. Whatever the case, we will aim to work with you and do our best to conclude the investigation to your satisfaction.

For further information information

If you require further information on our services and how we might be able to help you then please feel free to get in touch with us. Please note that we will usually require all details related to the assignment, such as locations where the subject resides and is likely to frequent, details about any vehicles used by the subject (or their preferred mode of transportation), photos of the subject, and any other details which could help us (for example, description/photos of any clothes that are worn by them, hotel room numbers, etc).

As a general rule, the more information that is provided to use the better; however we will endeavour to work with whatever information is available to us in each respective case. We offer free, no pressure quotes for all work. Please feel free to get in touch with us and see how we are able to help in your case.