If there is one thing Pattaya has no shortage of, it’s nightlife. The city is filled with thousands of different beer bars, bar complexes, a gogo bars, clubs and discos. Thousands of foreign men visit Thailand each year and meet Thai ladies working in the adult entertainment industry. Many of these men will go on to marry their Thai partners and even have children together further into their relationships.
However, there is a more sinister side to relationships with bar girls in Thailand. Often these women are from poor families in the north of Thailand and struggle to earn enough money to support themselves. The minimum wage in Thailand is very low, at only around US $11 per day. Thai ladies often look to their partners for financial support, this is typical if the lady is in a relationship with a foreign guy or even a Thai man… Once in a committed relationship the man is expected to help out with money for the lady and her family in Thai culture.
Sadly, many bar girls in Pattaya take advantage of this and try to have multiple boyfriends sending them money at the same time. Often, they will continue to sleep with other men while already in relationships, with the goal of earning (or being given) more money. This is a real problem for men looking to get involved with ladies that work or have previously worked in Pattaya nightlife. As a detective agency based in the city, we have helped countless men discover the truth about their Thai girlfriends. We will take the time to listen to your situation and offer advice on the best way we can help deliver you the truth.
If a Thai lady is working at a beer bar, an agogo bar, or if she regularly visits freelancing spots such as Lucifer or Insomnia, it’s very easy for us to help you by discovering if the lady is open to engaging in more relationships with other guys.
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After hiring us, there will be no need to worry about what your girlfriend is doing while you’re out of the country. We can deliver you truth professionally and discreetly. Simply send us a message explaining your situation and we will be glad to send you a free quote.
At PattayaPI, we have completed many successful operations in the northern region of Thailand (known as Isan, Isaan, or Esarn). We believe this is a very important part of our work, and here's why.
Many Thai people grow up in the north of the country, typically in rural farming communities but move to either Bangkok, Pattaya or Phuket to find work and earn money.
It is widely accepted that the majority of ladies working in beer bars, massage parlors, or elsewhere in the tourist industry have come from Isaan in the north of the country. Typically they will leave their children in the care of their grandparents while they work and send money back.
In this region of Thailand the Laos language is spoken. This dialect is not typically learned by foreigners living in the kingdom and many people find it hard to understand the subtle cues of this language. It is very important that we retain staff from all walks of life and positions in the Thai class system in order to complete investigations successfully. This could not be truer in Isaan. We treat all cases sensitively and with complete discretion.
Well known provinces in Isaan include Buriram, Surin, Khon Kaen, Udon Thani, Kalasin and Nong Khai. Although people from all the different provinces tend to migrate to Bangkok or Pattaya for work. We are able to work in all provinces of Thailand.
Many people's secrets lay in their hometowns, and in some cases the only way to get to the bottom of untruths is to go directly to their homes, in the small communities of Isaan. We have developed unique methods of social engineering which combined with regular investigative techniques; allows us to deliver an excellent service to our clients while providing value for money - almost anywhere in the kingdom.
If you find yourself needing a private investigator in Isaan, get in touch with us today and see how we're able to help you. We offer free, no pressure quotes for all work.
Our company also offers private detectives in Phuket and Bangkok.
Does your girlfriend work in a Thai massage parlor? Thai massage is famous the world over. If you mention “Thai massage” to anyone that hasn’t visited Thailand, you might find them associate it with the sex industry and mentions of “happy ending massages”. There are thousands of massage shops all over Bangkok and Pattaya. Many of them offer massages in large open plan rooms… Many other shops have private rooms that customers are lead to for their massages; and plenty other shops provide ‘short-time’ hotel rooms above the massage shop itself.
If someone tells you that they work in a massage shop in Thailand, it’s impossible for you to know if they are involved in the sex industry or not. Many massage shops are legitimate businesses with the staff being trained at a massage school before starting work. Illicit businesses do not advertise themselves as such, as their activities are against Thai law. Genuine massage shops look identical to massage shops which act as brothels and allow their staff to work as prostitutes. You cannot tell simply by looking at a massage shop if they have private rooms upstairs or offer other services to their customers.
Seedy massage shops do not hire trained staff. Genuine masseurs in Thailand attend 3-4 week long courses to learn the proper way to give a traditional Thai massage. The only way to be sure that your girlfriend or partner is not selling sex or ‘massages with extras’ is to hire a private investigator… And that’s where we come in. We have busted hundreds of Thai women working in massage parlors and selling themselves for money. We can guarantee you the best access to the truth and offer nothing but facts in how events unfolded. We never pay for extras or sexual services; our job is only to establish the truth and report back to our clients.
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Get a quote from us today if you’d like our help. We cover Pattaya, Bangkok and most of Thailand.
Thousands of foreign guys visit Thailand each year and form romantic relationships with Thai women. If you're one of them, you should be aware of signs and things to look for in your Asian spouse. Thai culture is very different to countries in the west, so we've compiled these top 10 warning signs we think are a good starting point.
Our detectives can investigate Thai women in Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket and most of Thailand. If you're having suspicions about your Thai partner, then feel free to get in touch with us for a free, no obligation quote. Learn more about Pattaya private investigators by clicking through to our homepage.
She constantly talks about money or asks you for money A good Thai woman would never request money from a man she is just starting a relationship with; this is not an appropriate sign when you are still getting to know each other and should act as a red flag. Common excuses for money can include: her parent’s buffalo is sick, she needs money for her family's medical bills, home improvement, or even just help paying for rent and food... Many Thai women that have been involved with the sex industry are especially good liars and know how to get money from foreign men!
She spends a lot of time in bars Alcohol is tolerated in Thai society and culture, but responsibly so. Most people in Thailand wouldn't consider spending night after night sat on a bar stool getting wasted. If you're looking for a party animal and someone to have a casual time with, this could suit you. But if you're looking for a serious, stable relationship, maybe this isn't the person for you. Learn more at our bar girl investigations page.
She has tattoos While this point in itself doesn't automatically make someone a bad person, tattoos on women are very much frowned on in Thai society. Tattooed women have become synonymous with the sex industry in Thailand with bar girls and go-go dancers frequently sporting ink. Outside of the night life and in normal society, women with tattoos carry a stigma and this should raise another red flag against your Thai partner. See our blog post about Thai women with tattoos.
She smokes cigarettes Good women that haven't been involved in the sex industry night life don't tend to use tobacco in Thailand. Smoking cigarettes is very common with ladies working in shady beer bars and can be a sign of a troublesome past.
She wears a huge amount of gold Gold is worn in Thailand and used as an investment as it can easily be pawned or sold when falling on hard times. However, it should be worn tastefully with no more than a couple of items, for example one necklace and 2 rings. If someone is wearing multiple thick gold chains worth thousands of dollars, they are seen as flaunting their wealth and showing off. This isn't an attractive trait and could be a sign they are used to a very expensive lifestyle.
Her English is very good but she never attended university Public schools in Thailand do not tend to teach a high level of English at all. If you're dating someone that speaks English but never attended university or English classes, this could be a sign that they've learned the English they speak by hanging out with foreigners in bars and other seedy places.
She swears a lot A good, respectable Thai woman would not use English swear words when speaking to their boyfriend or anyone else. You might find it amusing if your darling swears like a drunken sailor, but this is definitely not a good thing and highly taboo in Thai culture.
She says that all Thai men are "no good" With every group of people in the world there are good and bad, and Thai men are no exception. While there may be cases of domestic violence or abuse in Thailand, it's not true that all Thai men are bad. Thai men typically respect their girlfriends or wives in the same way that you would expect with a Western relationship. If a woman tells you that "all Thai men are no good" maybe that's a sign that Thai men just don't like her, and maybe there is a reason for that.
She is constantly on the phone texting while spending time with you It is never a good trait if your girlfriend or the lady you're dating is constantly using her phone and texting while you're together. This type of behavior is disrespectful and shows that you’re not deserving of her full attention. You should become extremely suspicious if she hides her phone screen from you or walks away from you to secretly speak with people in English in the toilet or somewhere else... No matter the excuses, these are huge red flags that the woman could actively be in a relationship with another man.
She is involved with, or tolerates the use of illegal drugs This by far the most serious warning sign to look for in your prospective partner in Thailand. Drug use and drug dealing is extremely taboo in the kingdom. There are 35 crimes that can earn you a death sentence in Thailand with drug trafficking being on that list. If you encounter anyone involved with illegal drugs in Thailand the best thing to do is walk away.
10.5: You met her through an app or internet dating site. If this applies to you then read our blog post about the dangers of internet dating in Thailand.
Are you being lied to by a Thai woman? We can help and have investigated countless ladies in Thailand. We can expose cheaters and their lies. If you're having doubts about your partner in Thailand, send us a message today for a free quote and see how we can help you.
Are you Internet dating a girl from Pattaya or Bangkok? Internet dating is very popular in Thailand and there are countless different websites and apps used in the country to find prospective partners.
We have found that meeting ladies through internet dating tends to give a false sense of security. It is very easy for someone to lie about where they work, as well as having graduated from university and many other different facts that makes someone attractive to the opposite sex. It's hard to cut off a relationship with someone after you've spoke daily for several months and met them in Thailand... and this fact isn't lost on them.
If a woman has been involved with the sex industry for many years and looks to dating through the web to find a foreign husband... Will she be honest about her line of work? Will she explain that she has been a prostitute for several years? We don't think this is very likely at all. Prostitution is highly stigmatized in Thailand as it is in most of the world and ladies of the night are fully aware of this. It's very easy to lie about this and claim to have a legitimate job.
Finding a girlfriend or a wife in Thailand is very different to dating in the western world. It has been reported that there is over 27,000 active prostitutes in Pattaya city alone, with it often being described as the sex tourism capital of the world. Internet dating can be a life line in helping prostitutes escape a life of poverty; it allows them to find a husband overseas while continuing their illicit line of work in the land of smiles. It also allows them to find multiple men that are willing to send them money regularly.
Many Thai women don't enjoy being involved with the sex trade, but it is a way to provide for themselves and their families with the Thai minimum wage around just $10 US per day. A lot of these women are expected to provide for their families and this can be hard to do on a meager wage.
A common tact among internet dating hookers to hide their profession is to find a business near to their home and take many different photos there. This could be a restaurant or a café which tend to have informal dress codes for their staff. It is easy to visit such a place and take photos which can then be uploaded onto dating sites and sent to their boyfriends overseas. We have even seen women pose wearing uniforms from the shop to make these photos appear more convincing. Without being in Thailand yourself it's impossible for you to discover the truth yourself, but very easy for us to help you!
We believe that if you are becoming involved in a romantic relationship with a Thai woman that it is best to get her checked out early in the relationship. The more time goes on, the more attached you will become to the lady, and the more forgiving you're likely to be of her deception. If you think that we can help you, send us a message today explaining your situation and we'll reply with a free, no obligation quote.